Lessons From Marvin Sapp
Hi ladies it's me again and happy Tuesday! I hope and pray that each of you ladies and your families are doing well. I'm happy to present another blog called ''Lessons From Marvin Sapp''. This blog will be about a wonderful godly man who made a difference in the hearts of the lives of many people. Marvin's childhood was that he grew up singing in church at a young age and met his first future wife Malinda there. He grew as a teenager, became sensitive to the things of the Lord and got saved. He was born and raised in Grand Rapids, Michigan and after high school he later attended ''Aenon Bible College'' in Indianapolis, Indiana and graduated from there. As time went on, the Lord opened many doors for Marvin to be used for His glory especially in the area of music. Marvin Sapp auditioned and later joined male gospel band called ''Commissioned'' that released their debut album in 1985 ''I'm Going On'' that later disbanded in the mid 2000s. (Many men joined the band especially Fred Hammond, the late Michael Brooks, Marvin Cole, and countless others contributed to the band that won many awards, toured all over the world, and produced many gospel hits too.) Marvin Sapp joined ''Commissioned'' in 1991 and was featured on the album ''Number 7'' and featured on two other albums such as ''Matters Of The Heart'', (released in 1994) and ''Irreplaceable Love'' (released in 1994.) (Side note the album ''Matters of The Heart'' was released the year I was born and ''Irreplaceable Love'' was released the year that my sister and mPastor Antonio Bowen my pastor of ''New Life Assembly Of God Church'' were born! ''Irreplaceable Love'' was an album that my parents purchased and played consistently in the house when I was growing up.) After the release of the album ''Irreplaceable Love'' Marvin Sapp later left ''Commissioned'' and became a solo gospel artist. Marvin Sapp has released multiple solo albums such as ''Marvin Sapp'', ''Grace & Mercy'', ''Nothing Else Matters'', ''I Believe'', ''Diary Of A Psalmist'', ''Be Exalted'' and so many more albums! But his ''breakthrough single'' if you will was his 2007's ''Never Would Have Made It'' from ''Thirsty'' which made him more of a ''household name!'' He released more chart topping albums such as ''Here I Am'' (2010), ''I Win'', (released 2012) ''You Shall Live'', (released 2015) ''Close'', (released 2017) ''Chosen Vessel'', (released 2020) ''Substance'', (released 2022) and ''Then And Now'' (released 2024) Marvin Sapp has won many awards such as over 20 Stellar awards, multiple Dove awards, BET awards, and Soul train awards! Whew! He also was nominated multiple times for a Grammy award though he didn't win! That's pretty impressive isn't it? Beyond Marvin Sapp's music career, he's also been pastoring for a number of years too. He often calls himself ''the preacher who happens to sing''. Marvin Sapp founded ''Lighthouse Full Life Center Church'' in 2003 and pastored there for many years prior to him relocating to Fort Worth, Texas and now pastors ''The Chosen Vessel Church'' in 2019. Marvin Sapp greatly enjoys pastoring and finds delight in shepherding God's people which helps give balance for his touring career too. In his personal life, Marvin has been married twice and widowed once. He married his late first wife Malinda in 1992 and they had three children together. Their names are Marvin Jr, (born 1994. Year I was born!) Makaila, (born 1997) and Madison (born 1999). Malinda Marvin's first wife was a Christian white woman making their three kids biracial and administrator of ''Lighthouse Full Life Center Church'' for many years until her death and going to heaven in 2010. (She died of colon cancer in 2010 and went to heaven leaving Marvin a widower and having to care for their three kids.) I can only imagine the grief that Marvin Sapp had to deal with for the years that followed not just for him alone but for his precious kids too. I'm sure that the death of his first wife was challenging spiritually, emotionally, and mentally for both him and his kids. (If I remember correctly, I believe he signed himself and his kids for counseling which I believe was a wise thing for them to do since grief is no joke to walk through.) The purpose of me writing this blog is to share with you ladies that Marvin Sapp, though he's a well known gospel artist and a pastor, didn't mean that he didn't have to walk through personal challenges, especially the loss of his first wife. I believe the inspiration of the albums that followed in the years after her death was him showing the world by God's grace he's been able to overcome that. I know many of you reading this can relate to grief in some sort of way and I especially can relate to that too. (Side note: even though I didn't lose a spouse or parent, I've lost multiple loved ones throughout the years and I've been transparent about the challenges of grief.) It would be a number of years before Marvin Sapp would even consider dating and remarrying again. Of course I'm sure he sought the Lord earnestly about it, talked to wise counsel, and took his kids grieving into account as well too. Well Marvin Sapp was able to thankfully remarry again in the early Spring of this year to his wonderful new bride named Dr Laboris Cole causing fans and people from his congregation to congratulate him! Him and Laboris had known each other as friends for several years prior to them dating. Not only that, Laboris is a clinical counselor, a degree she earned from ''Trevecca Nazarene University'', author, and founder of ''Born To Dance Worship Conference''. Wow! Sounds like she accomplished quite a bit before she got married to Marvin Sapp! When the two of them got married, Marvin waited for sixteen years prior to him agreeing to remarry! Marvin Sapp's three kids are grown with families of their own and they along with ''Chosen Vessel Church'' celebrated Marvin Sapp's remarriage which was a private ceremony between Marvin and Dr Laboris. Though it was a private ceremony, pictures of their wedding went viral on social media which made me happy to hear him remarried! I wrote this blog for you ladies to know that Marvin Sapp has had his share of ups and downs but because of God's grace, he's been able to overcome it all. If any of you ladies or any of your loved ones that have walked through the journey of grief know you're not the first or last to have walked through it. The Bible says in Psalm 34;18 ''The Lord is near to those who are brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit''. Jesus also promised in John 14;16-18 that He'd send the Holy Spirit as a Comforter as well too. Does that mean emotional healing happens overnight? No rarely! But time in God's presence can help the process and don't be afraid to go to counseling! That's what I wanted to share with you ladies. Blessings to each of you ladies, have a blessed week, and trust God to help you and heal you or loved ones with your mental health!










